independent women

Self reflection Monday's

Independent Women

This quote if I may say so, can create a earthquake lol but what guys don't understand is that most women strive for this : having a man that's loyal & being successful& independent at the same time. You know , she want to be able to hold her man down when he struggles but then again , most men have a huge ego, they don't like that. They not about that life but on the other side of the coin, they feel that they need to take care of their women. But now I ask ,where do you draw the line ?  He wants to take care of you and you on the other hand, wants loyalty while you float your own boat... 

I'm all about independence ! But be careful , this is a common mistake by women. Women tend to be over independent & makes the guy feel weak. Guys don't like weak women or women that can't stand on their own feet but allow him to do something for you. It helps feed their ego if it's safe to say so. 

Independence is important , it shows men that you are strong & smart enough to hustle on your own but remember  to find that balance between being independent & selfish.