#Throwback70's

Throwback Vintage! 

I was ubber' excited when I saw that MrP is bringing back the 70's fashion. Few months back I did a blog post about the raving 70's fashion & how fashionistas incorporate vintage in today's fashion. I love my MrP , they are my go to when it comes to the latest fashion trends ! They never disappoint.

What I like about the 70's fashion is that you its chilled. 

So if you love the 70's fashion , head to your nearest MrP & get these looks : 

Hello August

 

 

 

 



Shout out to all my ladies who celebrate their birthday in August with me. We proud "Winter Babies" .

For interest sake, the word 'August' also means celebrated, acclaimed and respected.

 

The month of August in South Africa is labelled as Women's month. Its our way of celebrating some of the countries remarkable women. Women like Nadine Gordimer (Novelist), Sophia Williams- De Bruyn (Women Rights Activist)  , Proff. Helen Rees (one of South Africa's top female scientists) and Thuli Madonsela (Public Protector) are just some of the remarkable women .

 

There's also a remarkable women that I will salute this month...my mother. Yesterday we commemorated her death. It has been 9years and yet it still feels like yesterday that we enjoyed our first and last proper holiday in Durban. I was sad, tears was flowing and flash backs haunted me but what I remember the most was her radiant smile, golden heart and wise words.

 

So what am I saying ?

Treasure your mother yes, but also treasure the remarkable women who's in the frontlines , fighting on behalf of us, women.

 

We salute the Mothers of our Nation.

 

Ubuntu " I am, because you are"

ARE GROUPS A REALITY?

W.I Thomas(1928) proposed the Thomas theorem which maintains that an individual's understanding of a social situation, even if incorrect, will determine how he or she will act in a situation "if men define situations as real, they are real in their consequences". this notion has to be the premise i shall depart in answering the question of if groups are real. this ofcourse puts me in an interactionist school of thought which is the viewpoint i adopted in addressing most of the concepts in the articles below. "Group dynamics describes both a subject matter and a scientific field of study.When Kurt Lewin (1951) described the way groups and individuals act and react to changing circumstances, he named these processes group dynamics" Forsyth, 2009. Lewin however used the term to describe a scientific discipline devoted to the study of these dynamics.Later Dorwin Cartwright and Alvin Zander(1968) supplied a formal definition, calling it a “field of inquiry dedicated to advancing knowledge about the nature of groups, the laws of their development, and their interrelations with individuals, other groups, and larger institutions”. this field of scientific inquiry can't exist if groups are not real. the purpose of all subsequent entries on this blog will be to convince you that groups are real by looking at some working definitions of groups, groups structure and also some group related concepts which researchers identified doing group studies. the entries are not structured in a particular manner because there is no real guiding structure for posting them and i also want to buttress on the points i was trying to make in the article about diversity. the outcome of these entries should be for the reader to be able to understand what groups mean and also see the relevance of group studies in addressing social issues in society. hope you have a pleasant time reading the articles.

UNDERSTANDING GROUPS STRUCTURE: INTER-MEMBER RELATIONS

A phrase given by Forsyth (2009) which you will come across in a lot of the other articles i wrote on understanding groups structure and their dynamics is that the best part of groups to study if you want to learn more about their dynamics is its structure. the structure of a group is defined by Forsyth as the complex of norms, roles and inter-member relations in a group. Inter-member relations is an essential part of a group's structure in other to have a better understanding of the group.

Social network Analysis: this is a mapping like process for understanding inter-member group relation. Works and studies done in this area date back to Moreno's early work on sociometry where a sociogram is used to describe the connections among group members. Social network analysis although more sophisticated, still starts with the question of who is connected to who?. Theorist here identified groups to be centralized and decentralized.
   some key terms to note in social network analysis:

• out degree; the sending ties a member gives
• in degree; receiving ties a member gets
• betweeness; the degree to which group members position in a network is located along the path or between other members in the network
• closeness; the inverse of distance, how close one member is to another.

  

  an example of applying social network analysis in studying a group

Network dynamics: status network is a stable pattern of variations in authority and power. the informal(actual) status structure does not always match the groups formal(mandatory) structure.
Attraction network: this is the stable patterns of liking-disliking(they tend to be more reciprocal). so for example if person one likes person three, it is very likely that person three will like person one too. this can also have negative effects if the flipside is considered. Heider's balance theory explains how these likes and dislikes are balanced. its basic fundamental assumption is that reciprocal relationships are balanced relationships and if we are in a social network where there is an odd number of negative relationships, that group will be imbalanced and the members must strive to correct that.
Communication network: formal and informal paths that define who speaks to whom most frequently. they differ however in degree on centralization.

Robert Freed Bales developed an observation and coding system which he called the systematic multiple level observation of groups(SYMLOG). It is a theoretical analysis of group structure and group observation system that assumes group activities to be classified along three dimensions; dominance versus submissiveness, friendliness versus unfriendliness and acceptance versus non-acceptance of authority. he further explained that groups are more effective when these three aspects align.

• Dominance or submissiveness:  is a group member active in group activities? outgoing? talkative or passie? quite or introverted? all these questions are addressed here.
• Friendliness or Unfriendliness: is this member warm, open and positive or irritable and negative? (friendliness is positive, unfriendliness is negative)>
• Acceptance or non-acceptance of task oriented authority: is this member analytic and task-oriented or emotional, non-traditional and in some cases resentful? (acceptance represents a forward movement while non acceptance leads to backward movement).

having considered inter-member relations in groups and some theories proposed by researchers in their studies of groups. we shall now consider other aspects of a groups structure and some concepts relating to group studies as we try to answer the question of if a group is a reality or some abstract concept that doesn't have meaning. find out in the other articles below.

UNDERSTANDING GROUPS STRUCTURE: NORMS

"The survivors of the crash needed to coordinate their actions if they were to stay alive. With food, water, and shelter severely limited, they were forced to interact with and rely on each other continually, and any errant action on the part of one person would disturb and even endanger several
other people. So members soon began to follow a shared set of rules that defined how the group would sleep at night, what types of duties each healthy individual was expected to perform, and how food and water were to be apportioned"
                                                                                                                           (Forsyth, 2009:145)


      Forsyth (2009) once commented that if you had to pick one parts of groups to study, you can learn the most by studying its structure which he explained to be the complex of roles, norms and inter-member relations that organizes a group. In the articles 'Understanding groups structure; unpacking roles 1&2' the concept of roles in relation to groups was relatively unpacked. In this article the part of a groups structure i shall be considering that Forsyth identified is Norms; these are consensual and often implicit standards that describe what behaviours should and should not be performed in a given context. they basically:

• entail group standards
• provide direction and motivation
• organize social interaction. they make others responses predictable

 it should be noted however that norms are not only consensual but they emerge over time from the interaction of  among members in a group. it should also be noted that the reason i keep saying norms are consensual is because i am of the opinion that norms are social standards which are accepted by a substantial part of the group. some norms that can be identified in society are folkways(ubiquitous social standards) and Mores(slightly enforced moral rues).
    Sherif's(1936) autokinetic effect studies confirmed that norms emerge, gradually, as group members’ behaviors, judgments, and beliefs align over time. the studies showed the effect of group members views in individuals norms. A dot of light was the only illumination in a dark room and some participants where asked to calculate how far they felt the light moved, all the participants gave different calculations, however over time as the studies where carried out again in groups there eventually became a convergence. this is where the norms emerge and they are what new members adopt in joining a group and remain regardless of if the original individual responsible for its inception has left the group.

Social tuning is the term that refers to the convergence of opinion.

Pluralistic ignorance: some researchers have noted that the reason for increase in alcohol consumption is as a result of pluralistic ignorance which simply means conformity to a nonexistent norm because of misconception. for example students always misjudge how much alcohol other individuals consume and so they conform to a norm that doesn't actually exist.

      When individuals internalizes(the process of making something your own) a norm, theorist identified that the experience discomfort when they realise they are acting contrary to a norm especially an injunctive(right or wrong) one.

       In conclusion to understanding how norms shapes group structure, it can be seen how studies carried out on groups by researchers and theorist has helped us understand this concept in relation to its function in groups.

UNDERSTANDING GROUPS STRUCTURE; ROLES UNPACKED 2

Roles have been defined in the article 'understanding groups structure; roles unpacked' as the types of behaviour expected of individuals who occupy positions in a group. I ended that article by stating that roles can also be the source of group conflict and personal stress. in this article we shall look at how roles can bring about these stress by looking at the interventionist concept of role stress(to understand more about the reason why i have adopted this school of thought and the meaning of micro sociology, check out the article "communication; a micro-sociological outlook on the concept).
 so what then is role stress? Forsyth (2009) identified some concepts to understand the reason for roles stress:

•  Role ambiguity: unclear expectations about the behaviours to be performed by an individual occupying a particular position within the group due to lack of clarity in the role itself, lack of consensus within the group regarding the behaviours associated with the role, or simple just the role taker's uncertainty regarding the type of behaviour expected by others("so now am a member of the greatest Chelsea supporters club, would it be weird to wear a Red jersey to the forum" a clear example of an individual;s uncertainty of the expected behaviour to perform in a group).
• Role conflict: a state of tension, distress or uncertainty caused by inconsistent or discordant expectations associated with ones roles in a group. it could either be intra-role conflict(a form of role conflict that occurs when the behaviours that make up a single role are incongruous, this so often results in inconsistent expectations on the part of the person who occupies the role and other members of the group) or inter-role conflict (a form of role conflict that occurs when individuals occupy multiple roles within a group and the expectations and behaviours associated with one of their roles are not consistent with the expectations and behaviours associated with another of their roles, for example your role in your family might sometimes conflict with your roles at work or school).
• Role fit: this is the degree of congruence between the demands of a specific role and the attitudes, values, skills and other characteristics of an individual who occupies the role.

this is just an interactionist approach to addresing roles, am sure the functionalist, conflict theorist and other theorist of different world views will unpack the concept in a different manner. however these concepts are key in understanding the issue of roles stress in individuals who are members of groups.

UNDERSTANDING GROUPS STRUCTURE; ROLES UNPACKED

Forsyth (2009) commented that if you had to choose one aspect of groups to study, you would probably learn the most by studying its structure.think about it! watching a group of individuals do something, perhaps a committee deliberating on trivial issues, a work crew at a construction site, a gaggle of school children streaming in the school's premises, you get a sense that these groups are structured in some way, that something unseen is holding them together. in some situations this bond might be loose in other cases they bind tightly. some proper understanding of these groups structure will help researchers and students in the social science and other fields know more about group actions both past, present and possibly future. In the article 'What a group means and what makes a group different than just a collection of strangers' i briefly touched on the structure of groups which Forsyth (2009) explained to be the complex of roles, norms and inter-member relations which organizes a group. In this article, i will try and unpack roles and consider some theorist definitions of the concept in relation to groups.
  Forsyth (2009) defined roles as the types of behaviours expected of individuals who occupy particular position within the group(consider how actors in a play have to take on roles and have to act out in the specified manner of the roles taken). he further commented that roles are independent of individuals(people pass through a group from entry to exit all the time but the roles pertaining to a position always remains e.g leader/follower roles in a group). Roles are flexible and to an extent structure interaction, create patterns of action and define responsibilities. having understood what roles now, we shall look at roles in a group concepts by considering some concepts identified by theorist in their studies of roles in groups.

Role Differentiation: this is an increase in the number of roles of an individual in a group, accompanied by a decrease in the scope of those roles as each one becomes more narrowly defined and specialized.
 Benne and Sheats (1948) identified task roles(performance oriented and initiating structure), relationship roles (strength of bond among members) and individualistic roles. they argued that these roles serve basic functions in a group. This is a functionalist view on roles though, other paradigms address the concept from a different angle.
 The interactionist role theorist propose that group members share a basic sense of the requirements of the roles that are common in most group settings. So individuals work out the details of their roles and their demands as they interact with one another;

• role sending: through communication you let people know what the role they adapted are.
• role taking: this is when you recognize other peoples role requirements, it is a perspective taking process, involving the individual stepping into a role.
• role enactment: this is the stage where the individual adopts the requirements of a role.

Roles Socialization: this is the process by which newcomers learn their roles in a group and by so doing become more committed to the group.

Role Transition: this involves the process by which a member of a group moves from a new member to a full member.

The concept of roles in a group context can sometimes lead to personal and group conflict. in the article "Understanding groups structure: roles unpacked 2", role stress and further role related concepts are addressed.

Ambition on "F L E E K"

Not only are my eyebrows, outfit or attitude on fleek but so is my ambition. I have been preaching all about being independent and standing on your own two feet and making your own coin- well I took my own words and I used it. I've been on this "self discovering" trip and I've met a new partner. I call him Ambition.

 

But what do I mean when I say I met a new partner ?

Ever woken up hungry in the middle of the night ? well that's me every morning, but in this case I'm not hungry for food... but hungry for success , more success , more greatness.

 

But being ambitious comes with a very high cost. You'll have late nights and really early morning. You will have associates and very few friends. People won't understand you , so being misunderstood becomes a regular thing. Being single might end up being a forever thing unless you lucky enough to find someone who understands your lifestyle and the cherry on top - people will want you to do good, but never better then them.

So being on my ' Grind' has taught me four important lessons:

1. The road to being independent is lonely
2. Your outlook on life changes drastically
3. Making future plans becomes of high priority
4. Never forget God

I truly respect females that's constantly on their grind' , hustling their way to the top. Its not an easy road but the rewards is so worth it.

YEAH WE KNOW SOMETHING ABOUT GROUPS NOW. SO WHAT ARE THE TYPES OF GROUPS?

In the article 'what groups are and what makes a group different than just a collection of strangers', we looked at some definitions offered by theorist on what a group is. having now looked at these definitions we can begin to conceptualize the concept of referring to an aggregation of individuals as a group. in this post we shall be looking at some types of groups found in society which some theorist in their group studies have identified.
   Groups come in a variety of shapes and sizes and perform functions that are vast and varied. it is noteworthy to thus acknowledge the differences among them as well as their similarities. Forsyth(2009) considered four basic types of groups identified by theorist, though he stated that these are just samples of the many types of groups proposed by theorist.

Primary Groups:  "these are relatively small personally meaningful groups that are highly unified"Forsyth, 2009. in these groups, the members feel so involved and part of the fabric that they feel like they belong to something larger than themselves. this is where groups like family, friends and tight-knit peer groups fall under. as we continue looking at the different groups try and conceptualize your membership in these groups in your life and you will spot some of these characteristics identified by theorist. Forsyth further explained that primary groups are characterized by face to face interaction, solidarity, high levels of member to group interdependence and identification.
Charles Cooley(1909) believed such groups serve as the primary source of socialization for members by shaping their attitudes, values and social orientation. these groups are the first a person joins because of the important roles they play in their members lives. Cooley explained that these groups take care of its members, protects them from harm and cares for them in illness. according to Cooley, the most important function these groups perform is creating a bridge between the individual and society at large. we sometimes join these groups involuntarily(i don't think any one chooses to be born into a family).

Social Groups: Forsyth explained that social groups are small groups of moderate duration and permeability. they are characterized by steady levels of interaction among members over an extended period of time, often in goal focused situations. examples of such groups found in society include co-workers, expeditions, fraternities, sport teams, study groups, task forces among others.

Collectives: these are groups that have been identified by theorist as aggregation of individuals that form spontaneously and last only a brief period of time. their boundaries are permeable. examples of such groups include Audiences, Crowds, Mobs, Supporters in a stadium etc.

Categories: these are aggregations of individuals who are similar to one another in some way, this could be by gender, ethnicity, religion or nationality. examples of such groups include Nigerian citizens, Newyorkers, Asian-Americans, Physicians etc.

     these are just some groups among others which have been identified by theorist doing group studies in various social science fields. so now you know some types of groups individuals belong to in society.

WHAT A GROUP MEANS AND WHAT MAKES A GROUP DIFFERENT THAN JUST A COLLECTION OF STRANGERS.

So the reason for that "almost sounds like a Hollywood blockbuster movie" name is because addressing the concept of groups in relation to its importance in the social science field is a relatively new branch of the social science. text in this field specifically are sparse as studies carried on groups and their dynamics are usually documented in research findings. studies carried out on groups dynamics has benefited some related social science fields like sociology, social psychology, clinical psychology etc. the million dollar or naira(okay or rand too)question at this point in time now is What is a group? lets start with some definitions of groups by some theorist:

"A group can range from small collectives like dyads(a group entailing just two individuals) and triads to mobs crowds and congregations" Simmel, 1902.
"groups tend to be relatively small in size on the average, they range from two to seven members" Mullen, 1987.
"a group is a collection of individuals who have relations to one another" Cartwright & Zander, 1968.
"a group is a social unit which consist of a number of individuals who stand in (more or less) definite status and role relationships to one another" Sherif & Sherrif, 1956.

       looking at the different definitions given by the different theorist we can deduce that a group firstly takes two or more individuals to constitute. there has to also be some kind of relationship among them to be considered a group. we can also deduce that theorist are not of one mind when it comes to defining groups, some stress the importance of communication between members, others highlight the key role played by mutual dependence. lets try and look at the groups we are part of;our family, friends, spouses, "baes" etc. you should sense that there has to be some sort of structure binding the relations in the group or we might as well all be strangers to each other. this structure is what Forsyth identified as the complex of roles, norms and inter-member relations that organizes a group. roles specify the general behaviour expected of people who occupy different positions within the group. norms are consensual standard that describe what behaviours should and should not be performed in a given context. it basically shapes group members interaction. a group should have an amount of cohesion for it to hold firm and survive the long run of course. like in physics the molecular integrity of matter is known as cohesiveness. when a matter is cohesive, the particles that constitute it bond together so tightly that they resist any competing attractions. a groups cohesion thus will require a solid structure. now you must be thinking is a congregation of people in a soccer stadium a group? Donald campbell answered that with entitavity which he described as the extent to which an assemblage of individuals is percieved to be a group rather than n aggregation of independent, unrelated individuals. for example if you see a family in a park you could almost immediately assume them to be a group due to how your perceive the groups cohesion. on the other hand you might not be so quick to refer to  congregation of individuals watching a football match in a stadium as a group because there doesnt appear to be a modicum of cohesiveness. some researchers however identify this large congregations as groups which some refer to as collectives. at this point in time i am sure you have learnt a thing or two about groups that you didnt know before. well that's the whole point of this post, so thank you for your time and in the next post we shall look at some types of groups found in society.

WHO DO WE PUT THE BLAME ON? WHO GETS THE CREDIT?....THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT ATTRIBUTION.

Adesuwa had just been awarded for her excellence in the regional high school examinations as the best graduating student. With a beaming smile she mounted the podium and leaned towards the microphone to give her speech to the anticipating crowd of family, friends, well wishers and colleagues. having already rehearsed her speech about a hundred times, she delivered it finally "i want to thank God first and foremost for his mercies" she started " i also want to thank my parents, whose support and love made it possible for me to be here, i am one truly blessed individual. finally i would like to acknowledge the presence of my wonderful teachers whose time and effort spent on me paid off because i am hardworking and dedicated...." she finished her speech and was drowned in the resounding applause as she trudged proudly back to her to her sit. somewhere at the back of the crowd sat Bosco with a forlorn and resigned look on his face "i should be the one collecting that award" he thought to himself "if i hadn't partied so much, now i am wishing i had gotten a lamp for the load shedding...." he continued as he sat downcast absorbed in his thoughts.

Attribution can simply be understood as the process of attributing 'something' to a reason. this reason could either be individual or situational. in our everyday living, we constantly have to make decisions among alternatives in order to get through the day. sometimes we set goals and meet them or maybe fail to meet them. we then attribute our success or failure to a cause or a reason. in psychology, attribution theorist argue that the underlying process of attempting to understand the word around us is universal, pervasive and predictable. so attribution theory is concerned with how individuals interpret events and how it relates to their thinking and behaviour. these theories however lean more towards a logical empirical approach(research is carried out in labs by experiments). some 'dude' named Fritz Heider(1958) was the first to propose a pyschological theory of attribution. in a basic synopsis, attribution theorist propose that any behaviour can be viewed as an effect that has some cause we attribute, this can be internal or external attributes. this attribute however influence the meaning of the behaviour and how we might respond to it.
       Theorist have identified two types of attributions which include external(situational) attribution and internal(dispositional) attribution. There are stages in the attribution process, first the person must perceive or observe the behaviour(....so funke cant understand why Justin has been lying so quitely beside her "what is he thinking" she thought to herself..), then the person must believe that the behaviour was intentionally performed( "he is probably so tired from work, or maybe he is hungry and doesn't want to disturb me" she continued thinking as she watched Justin just lie still there), finally the person must determine if they believe the other individual was forced to perform the behaviour(this is where it is attributed to situation, like Funke attributing Justin's fatigue to his work) or not(in which case the cause is attributed to the other person).

Now lets look at some attribution principles. firstly the Locus of Control means the extent to which we believe we have control over events, it can either be internal(i control) or external (society controls). secondly there is stability which is best understood by looking at Weiner's original attribution model. 

Weiner focused his attribution theory on achievement(Weiner, 1974). he identified ability, effort, task difficulty, and luck as the most important factors affecting attributions for achievement. there is a strong relationship between self concept and achievement. Weiner (1980) states "causal attributions determine affective reactions to success and failure; high achievers tend to attribute success to internal factors and attribute failure to external factors while low achievers tend to attribute success to external factors and attribute failure to internal factors(refer back to the story at the beginning of this post for better understanding).   

    This is just the surface of attribution theory, but i am sure you have learnt a thing or two about what it is all about. the pyschological theories employed are ofcourse positivist in their approach to addressing the issue of attribution, but theories and research done in this field has helped researchers in other social science field aside psychology have an understanding of attribution.

DIFFERENT ISNT ALWAYS DEVIANT! SOME THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT DIVERSITY

                    The concept of diversity might come across as a tricky one at first glance. Perhaps that is simply because it is. I am one of those sociologist who isn’t so into the positivist approach to addressing social issues. I believe individuals interpret reality based on the meanings attributed to the different symbols in society. so my thinking is guided mainly along the interpretivist school of thought.

           Okay enough big words have been thrown around, what is diversity and how is it relevant to society? Well let’s start with the basics and define diversity; According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary of English, diversity is the quality of having many different forms, types, ideas etc. it is also defined as the state of having individuals of different races and cultures in a group or organization. So how does that which is diverse get to be seen as deviant? My best answer to this is embedded in the my belief that the world view or paradigm which guides the values of a given culture or group perhaps, influences largely how diversity can either be seen as different or deviant. So what does deviance mean and what is its relation to diversity? The Merriam-Webster dictionary of English defines that which is deviant to be different from what is considered to be normal or morally correct. Robert Merton a functionalist, in his theory of anomie explains; diverse behaviour can become deviant from the moment in which there is a state of anomie or relatively a setting which includes a contradiction between what is socially acceptable and the means by which it can be attained, prevails. Even in cases where diverse behaviour fully reflects the norm (not infringing on a moral or legal order). From the instance it gets stigmatized as abnormal or non-conformist, it becomes what Merton calls anomie.

In Merton's typology he argues that deviance stems from the structure of society, he departs from the functionalist position of value consensus i.e every member of society share the same values.he explains that due to stratification in society such as difference in class positions, people don't have the same chances of realizing this shared values. this situation according to Merton is what creates deviance. now lets apply Merton's functionalist approach to our society(i will be considering the Nigerian society). firstly i would like to note that in working with Merton's theory i have taken an holistic and positivist approach so there might be some generalizations, but it will all come together when i explain the reason why i choose not to adopt this approach in addressing the concept of diversity. in the Nigerian society the goal of success is largely measured by wealth and material success(remember i am taking an holistic approach so i am assuming there are shared values amongst Nigerians). and the accepted ways of achieving this success could be through education, talent, hardwork, drive, ambition and determination. the problem however with thinking along this axis as Merton pointed out is there is always the tendency for individuals to 'reject the rules of the games' and strive to attain success by any means necessary. I know the first thing that flew into your mind is "G-boys" or internet fraudsters for those who don't understand Nigerian slangs. You are correct to thing along that line of course because as much as the Nigerian society frowns on Internet Fraud as a criminal act, a successful G-boy isn't likely to be tagged a criminal but rather a successful member of society. this according to Merton's typology is called Innovation; this response rejects the normative means of achieving success and turns to deviant means, always questionable and criminal. now lets look at all those "over-sabi" in society, those people who conform to both society goal of success and the means of getting them. this individuals are called conformist in Mertons theory(we can throw all those Lawyers and Doctors in here, you can also add that boy that keeps coming first place in every examination here too). now those people who just because they don't want to be deviant, "play it safe", are called ritualist by Merton. they are usually found in the lower middle class of society and they tend to hold on to safe routines and institutional norms. they are generally not ambitious so you they hardly have an upward social mobility in society. then there are the retreatist; this people just abandon both the goals and means and become asocial( disturb them at your own risk). this applies to the outcast, tramps, drug addicts, chronic drunkards, psychotics etc. Finally rebellion involves the rejection of both the success goals and the institutionalized means and  replaces them with different goals and means. lets look at how some of these classifications of individuals in Merton's typology look like in society.

CONFORMIST

RITUALIST

RETREATIST

REBELS

looking at the retreatist and rebels, would you consider them normal? if your answer is no then you have thus categorized them as deviant based on your idea that everyone has the same definition of what is normal. this is where i depart is explaining why diversity should not be seen as deviant but different. when diversity is considered from a micro-sociological lens and emphasis is placed on social action and individuals interpretation of society, then one begins to see why a diverse situation should not be considered deviant, because that which is considered diverse might have maintained a state which from its inception is different from the one which values are used in judging. for example if in a group of 5 people, 4 individuals like coffee and the last individual prefers hot chocolate, if the individual who prefers hot chocolate is to be judged by the shared values of the other individuals who like coffee then he would be considered deviant. but if the other four individuals accept the fact that the 'hot chocolate loving' individual has his own values and norms that guides him then he wouldn't be  considered deviant but simply different. Berger & Luckman (1966) explained that micro sociological currents mainly focus on social relations and the means by which individuals exchange meanings; it is thus by moving in this direction of micro reflections that we can identify some elements that allow us to place the concept of diversity within sociological theory. Given that our attention is on individuals and their relationships with ‘the others’. If we consider the social practices of construction and attribution of meaning, we see how social action becomes an element that in some way imposes change within the social structure. Individual and collective behaviours create the constituents of society,

   In conclusion, there are various dimensions of diversity in society today which people generally tend to stereotype as sometimes deviant, that's why issues of racism, sexism, ageism etc, all these issues can be reduced in society if we move from a structural way of thinking and lean towards accepting that every individual in the world is different and we all construct reality based on our experiences. so what is normal for me isn't necessarily going to be normal for you because not only does socialization play a big role in ones perception of the world, no two people think the same way. so if there is anything you should take from this post (its time for moral lesson o!), its the fact that one should learn to tolerate diversity in society because if a fish was judged by its ability to climb a tree, it would probably think its a failure all its life.  

    

COMMUNICATION ( A MICRO-SOCIOLOGICAL OUTLOOK ON THE CONCEPT)

                        According to Emilio Gardini, the birth of the discipline of sociology came along with society’s effort to respond to changes in advanced western modernity. Sociology as an academic discipline is a social science course which basically involves the study social behavior, social structure; its development, institutions and its organization. Within sociological study one can choose to take a Macro outlook in addressing issues or a micro outlook. So what is the difference between these two lenses and how is this even relevant to communication? Well Macro theorist in sociology view the society has having a structure and depending on whether you are a functionalist, conflict theorist or Marxist, you address issues in society with that thought. Macro theorist view society as outside of the individual’s perception with strong emphasis on determinism. Micro sociology on the other hand, involves the construction of meaning that is socially relevant within society in social action and collective behavior. Here individuals are believed to construct the meanings that they attribute to facts and events through social relations. Also when looking at society with this lens, the school of thought one adopts influences how one considers society. The constructionist and symbolic interactionist acknowledge a structure but emphasis is placed on meaning and interpretations. Phenomenology on the other hand focus more on experiences, senses, and consciousness of individual, this school of thought does not acknowledge the presence of a structure. Now coming back to the issue at hand, I have decided to take a micro-sociological viewpoint because I am considering the concept of communication in terms of how individuals in society interpret and give meaning to things. for example, if I am to communicate to a group of individuals in a seminar presentation, when I am addressing the group in a language, I believe that the people am addressing must understand what it is I am saying and thus be able to give meaning to my words. this emphasis on interpretations and meanings is what categorizes this post in a micro sociological lens. 

The concept of communication has become a fascinating one for me recently due to readings I have come across and also some very enlightening class discussions. If I ask anyone right now to define communication the first thing that is likely to come to mind will be the exchange of information or maybe not in those exact words but along similar axis. That is of course correct thinking as the Merriam-Webster dictionary defines it as the act or process of using words, sounds, signs, or behaviors to express or exchange information, Or to express your ideas, thoughts, feelings, etc., to someone else. From the above definitions, communication can be seen to be a social act in the sense that it involves more than one individual. Although some people (notice how I said ‘some’) might believe that communication is done solely through speech, that is only just one medium of communication amongst others. Individuals can also communicate through facial expressions (my mother’s famous “don’t eat that food” look comes to mind), gestures, pointing/using hands, writing (remember how we were all such good love letter composers before texting, abbreviations and smileys ruined it), drawing, touching, the list seems endless. Now for this to be possible i.e. for communication to occur, the individuals involved will have to understand each other, this means both have to understand the language being used. Sight, hearing , reading skills, ability to recognize information, memory to recall and understand information all come into play. my fascination for communication stems mainly from how this concept shapes our world. in the socialization process of a child, the parents try and shape the reasoning of their child by communicating to them (say "mama" c'mon! say "mama"). we have to communicate with other individuals daily to get through our routines. I wouldn't be writing this post if it wasn't meant to communicate something to you. In looking at Tajfel's social identity theory which postulates that individuals construction of self is based on group membership, communication can also be seen as key in ones construction of self. to break this down and make it more understandable, ask yourself this question. who am I? you might start defining yourself as a Christian, an honest individual, a freak perhaps, a bank manager, a literate individual, a father, a sister, a wife etc. all these can only occur due to your interaction with other individuals which thus allows your to categorize yourself in a social grouping based on shared meanings with others. so if I say I am a Christian or a Man, I do so on the basis that you should understand the meaning attributed to those words, and also my meaning which I attribute to those words stems from how I was socialized. at this point in time you should now understand my fascination with the concept of communication. finally I believe individuals attribute meaning to what is socially relevant to them, this is why the Urhuobo people in the mid-western region of Nigeria have multiple names for Yam (due to its significance in their society, like its use in marriage practices) and the French people have no word for the same crop. Similarly the French have multiple names for various flowers(due to the significance attached to them, for example if I want to woo a lady in France, I could buy her a rose flower), while the Bini people in Nigeria have just one word for all flowers (so the rose might not be such a good idea for a Bini lady). 

in a basic synopsis, communication when viewed from a micro-sociological lens involves addressing the concept in terms of its significance in social action and also how individuals attribute meaning to and interpret the words or means used in the process.   

"You will reap the fruits of your Labour "

From peace price winners and publishing pioneers to fashion designers. Teenage girls are the ones to watch. 

Meet three teenagers from different back grounds but who share the same interest at heart : a Dream 

Thandiwe Chama

Age : 18

She hails from Zambia where she's currently acing Education activism & reform. She's the 2007 International Children's Peace Prize winner who at age 9 , led 60 children on a walk to find another school when theirs closed down. She also champion HIV/Aids awareness and education rights for children.

Cecilia Cassini

Age: 15

This fashion designer hails from the United States. Being 15 & designing outfits for celebrities like Taylor Swift & Sofia Vergara is a everyday thing for Cecilia. 

Malala Yousafzai

Age : 17

From the beautiful land of Pakistan ,Malala has become a well known young activist fighting for Equal education & rights. She's the Co-Author of her Autobiography , " I am Malala :The girl who stood up for Education and was shot by the Taliban ". Almost loosing her life , Malala believes that "They can only shoot a body ; they cannot shoot my dreams. My dreams are living.

What is your dream & what are you doing to make it come true ? 

BET Awards 2015

Yess Hontey's ! It's that time of the year already where we get to witness who & what walks away with the title. 

A lot has been happening these past months. Familiar faces made huge comebacks (No shade Riri & Chris) && new faces entered the fierce hustle of music (Shout out Dej Loaf && Tinashe) .

Hosted by the Black'ish couple - Tracee Ellis Ross & Anthony Anderson we can expect a hilarious few moments & some fierce performances by yo' girl Nicki Minaj & Uncle Snoop.

Let's check out some the nominees for the following categories : 

Best female R&B/Pop Artist

Beyoncé : Janelle Monáe : Jhene Aiko

Ciara : K.Michelle : Rihanna

Best Male R&B/Pop Artist

Chris Brown : Trey Songs : The Weekend

August Alsina : Usher : John Legend

Best Group

Rae Sremmurd : Migos : Young Money

Rich Gang : ASAP Mob

Best Female HipHop Artist

Dej loaf : Iggy Azalea : Nicki Minaj

Trina : Tink : Azealia Banks

Best Male Hiphop Artist

Wale : JCole : Drake

Kendrick Lamar : Common : Big Sean

Best Collaboration

August Alsina ft.  Nicki Minaj - No Love (Remix)

Chris Brown ft. Lil Wayne & Tyga - Loyal

Mark Randson ft. Bruno Mars - Uptown Funk

Chris Brown ft. Usher & Rick Ross - New Flame

Common & John Legend - Glory

& yess! I saved the best for last!  Some of our own has been nominated at the BET Awards. Thou shall be representing!  Huge congratulations to the following...

Best International Act: Africa

A.K.A ( South Africa)

The Soil ( South Africa)

Cosmopolitan Cover Girl

Nicki Minaj

Hated by many , loved by few. This Female Mc' went from 0 - success in just a few months. This Trinidadian-born reached so many levels of independence & success...from dominating a male territory in music to owning clothing lines ,perfume lines && selling out tours. 

So what's next for this fierce lady ? Well she shot the cover of Cosmopolitans July Issue & she did a great job. Might be a little to explicit but it's Cosmopolitan after all. 

Congratulations Nicki Minaj

XXI SAMA

21st Annual South African Music Awards

(SAMA)

While some people went all "gaga" about the UEFA Champions League Final this past Saturday between Barcelona & Juventus , which Barca took the title ,obviously so congratulations to them... I was home watching the SAMA yessss!  

Successful Awards evening I must say & may i add - some celebs slayed on the red carpet. 

Fix Moeti,  Amanda Dupont,  Zizo Beda & Ross

Anati's shoe game was on fleek !

But let's not forget to acknowledge those who received awards. Thee most surprising award for me was the " Album of the Year " award which was won by Beatenberg. 

Congratulations to them ,Beatenberg , for crushing everybody's expectations... &&  congratulations to all the other fine South African artist who works hard to put SA on the map && for keeping our rhythm alive !